Tuesday, July 14, 2009

Lessons From the Garden

It is a tough time to raise kids.  I worry about Logan falling into the traps of entitlement and laziness.  I worry that he will be disrespectful.  I am working hard to combat these vices that have unfortunately become the socially acceptable norm.  Even though he is little, I believe that now is the time to really begin teaching him to be respectful, hard-working, and grateful.  

This summer he and I have worked hard growing a beautiful garden.  It has taken us out of stores, away from the screen, and away from the battles being inside brings.  After months of tilling, weeding, watering, mulching, thinning, and transplanting, we are finally picking.  If anyone comes to visit, Logan wants to take them out to see our garden to show them the vegetables he has grown.  Even though I could have completed the necessary tasks much more quickly if I had done them alone while he played, I'm glad I let him help.  He pushed most of the seeds in the ground himself.  He spread the mulch.  He even knows how to tell the difference between the weeds and the plants.  I hope that learning the Law of the Harvest while he is young helps him do more than just plant gardens one day.

8 comments:

Marissa said...

Send him to my house...I need help pulling weeds and my babies can't tell the difference yet! I love you and miss you tons!

Jason and Shalise Staples said...

Hi Lisa, your garden looks really great and I think that is a great lesson to teach logan. Sorry that we did not get you see you and logan when we were in utah.

kate said...

that is wonderful. i had to get up every morning in the summers to weed our garden. my dad always said he wasn't raising corn, he was raising kids.

Emilie said...

i agree. even cute little 2 year olds can learn to work and enjoy it. i'm excited to plant a garden this fall (they do things backwards in AZ :)

Erin said...

That's really cool that you have been letting Logan help. Kaden loves pulling weeds too. Lyle took him to help weed our ward garden a couple of weeks ago and it was really good for him. I am excited to plant a garden next year with him.

Mama Janet said...

I've missed seeing Logan and telling him bout my day at the garden spot. I know it will be waiting there when I get home. Will you take you little picker and go check out my garden?

Tiffany J said...

AMEN! It's so nice to know that other parents are trying to teach and instill the same things in their kids. Here's to making the world a better place! Cheers!

Melynn said...

You are an incredible mom. I want to see pictures of this beautiful garden.

I agree, gardens are a wonderful teaching tool. There was a talk given by elder Eyring where he remembered being a young boy,weeding in his garden with tears coming down his face while looking up and seeing his mom with a smile on her face. The point was that he was being taught to work and that he was grateful for the lesson.

Spencer credits his work ethic to the massive gardent that they had growing up.

I am inspired by your determination to have a beautiful garden.

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